Real Happiness At Work

Real Happiness At Work

Does real happiness at work exist? It may seem like a pipe dream, something distant in the future, or a possibility with a change in career. In 2006, my workaholic behaviors were taking a serious negative toll on my health, mental state, and marriage. I sought help...
How To Stop Beating Yourself Up

How To Stop Beating Yourself Up

Today’s topic is much needed. A lot of research supports how self-compassion – kindness toward self – is more helpful than self-esteem.  Have you received  messages that you need to feel good about yourself? Feeling good about yourself is usually...
Quiet Your House

Quiet Your House

Quiet your house Take out the insulation Remove a few doors Quiet your house Add a bird A cat And three roaming dogs Quiet your house Eliminate a wall Push out the windows Quiet your house Welcome a few Surprise visitors Then give away The shower curtain Quiet your...
3 Reasons Why Stress Management Stinks

3 Reasons Why Stress Management Stinks

At a networking event a few months ago, an acquaintance introduced me to her colleague as someone who speaks about stress management. Ugh. I immediately felt my insides collapse. I felt disgusted to be identified with stress management. This is not what I do. I help...